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WEEKLY MESSAGE FROM OUR VICAR, ALEX – 7th October 2021


Dear Church Family Members and Parish Friends, 
 
Hoping you're all well.
 
This week's parish news contains information on the following: 
  1. 3 Marathons
  2. A new noticeboard at St. Paul's
  3. 'Little Roots' our new Toddler Group
  4. The Prayer meeting on Tuesday 12th October
  5. Community Alive and Messy Church - our 'All-Age' services at each church
  6. Alpha
  7. Food Bank
  8. Our next parish walk
Love and prayers, 
Alex 
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  1. 3 Marathons
Very well done to both George Drewitt and Oli Moore, who completed the London Marathon on Sunday - we are really proud of you! George was running for Afasig and Oli was running for Vision Foundation. Photos are attached of them with their medals. I also had the privilege of completing the Brighton Marathon, for the NSPCC, a couple of weekends before... so have attached photos of all three of us, following encouragement from some of you to share this too ??
 
  1. A new noticeboard at St. Paul's
To complete the photograph set, I have also attached a photo of the new noticeboard at St. Paul's (the other one was completely rotten through), which was designed and created by Michael for us (saving the parish a huge amount of money which we would have had to pay to replace it otherwise). In the photo you will see Michael, Michelle and I posing after we had spent several hours putting it up this week. This is another step forward in giving us even better ways of communicating and sharing with the local community. (Thank you Michael!) 
 
  1. 'Little Roots' our new Toddler Group
On Tuesday next week, the 12th October, we are delighted to announce the launching of a new Toddler Group at St. Paul's: 'Little Roots'. This will run from 9-10.30 am, every Tuesday during term time, and the team will be headed up by Sophie Drewitt. (Thank you Sophie!). 
 
We are really excited by this - please share the attached flyer far and wide, around as many people as you can, to 'get the word out there'... and please do pray for Sophie and the team as this gets underway. 
 
  1. The Prayer meeting on Tuesday 12th October
The next Parish Prayer meeting will be on Tuesday 12th October, on Zoom, at 7.30 pm. The link for this is here:  https://us06web.zoom.us/j/87823454953?pwd=QXY4ckYwVHpKYVdhNEZEdzMzZDlKdz09
 
We will be praying for the needs of the parish, including all of our initiatives which are restarting - or launching new. We will also incorporate some aspects of Compline, a traditional night prayer in the Church of England. 
  1. Community Alive and Messy Church - our 'All-Age' services at each church
This weekend at St. Paul's (Sunday 10th October) we re-launch 'Community Alive' and next weekend at St. Mary's (Sunday 17th October), we re-launch Messy Church. These are our 'All Age' services, aimed at children & families. 
 
Please pray for both as they resume - and come along too. 
 
Thank you very much to all involved in preparing for and leading these. 
 
  1. Alpha
Alpha started well this week - many thanks to Andrew and the team for leading this initiative. Next week's topic is 'Who is Jesus?' It is not too late to join in if you'd still like to - please contact Andrew LLM@norkwithburghheath.com to find out more or to join the course. Please do continue to pray for the group as they journey together. 
 
  1. Food Bank
Our next Food Bank collection will be on Wednesday 20th October, from 2-4 pm, outside St. Mary's. 
 
Items needed this time are: deodorant - male and female, powdered milk, shaving foam, shower gel, noodles, squash, tinned fruit, coffee, meat pies (no alcohol), bags for life. 
 
Thank you so much for your continued support of this very important ministry. 
  1. Our next parish walk
Our next parish walk will be on the morning of Saturday 16th October and will be a 4 mile walk on Banstead and Walton Heaths, starting somewhere near St. Mary's. Thank you very much to Simon & Jane Morrison for co-ordinating these walks. If you are not in the walking group already and would like to find out more information, please do be in touch. 
 
 
Love and prayers, 
Alex 

Rev Alex Stevens
Vicar
Parish of Nork with Burgh Heath


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COVID SAFETY IN OUR CHURCHES FOR THE NEXT COUPLE OF MONTHS

 
As we are all aware, the Government lifted all COVID restrictions on Monday 19th July.
 
The Church of England and the Diocese have urged all church leaders and PCCs to make decisions over COVID safety which
•         continue to manage the risks of COVID as safely as possible
•         take into account the needs of the more vulnerable members of our church family (ie thinking of the needs of others - rather than our own wishes as our focus)
•         and demonstrate responsible love & care for all
 
Decisions over COVID measures are now being made in each individual parish, according to the unique circumstances of different areas and different groups of people.
 
I wrote to you last week, seeking your preferences on topics such as social distancing, mask wearing, singing and sharing the peace. Thank you so much to everyone who responded, it has been very helpful.
 
The PCC and I then met on Monday evening and discussed all the findings, which are shared below with the decisions which we think are wise for the current time and which will be reviewed again in our next PCC meeting on Monday 20th September.
 
We have tried to go with the majority preferences wherever possible as will also be shown below.
 
At the bottom of the outcomes to the key questions asked are some further general points, which were highlighted by some of you and which we discussed as part of the process.
 
 
Sharing the Peace
 
The easiest decision to make, following everyone's responses is that - for now - we will continue to share the peace by waving & nodding at each other, including those on Zoom.
 
76% of respondents said that their preference is to keep waving for now.
10% suggested elbow or fist pumps
14% are happy to share the peace by shaking hands, but would avoid those who are uncomfortable (there was a suggestion that perhaps those who don't wish to share the peace could stay seated) and would hand sanitise afterwards.
 
The majority, by far, wished to keep waving & nodding.
 
This will next be reviewed at the PCC meeting on Monday 20th September.
 
 
Mask Wearing
 
Again, this was an easy decision to make (because of the high majority preference): For now, we will ask you to continue to wear masks when you enter the church building for worship, until you exit at the end.
 
73% of respondents said that they would prefer us to still wear masks
Of these 3% suggested that if someone refuses to wear a mask then it may be helpful for them to be asked to sit at the front of the church to keep others safe (I will not be asking this of anyone - but instead will ask everyone to consider the needs and wishes of others around them)
10% of respondents said that they would prefer to stop wearing masks, but are happy to continue to do so if others would prefer to keep them
16% of respondents stated that they would like to stop wearing masks and of these 3% wished to put them on during the sharing of communion and 3% wished to review according to local infection rates over time
 
This request does not apply to children under 12 and does not apply to the medically exempt. Please do chat with me about any concerns you may have in this regard.
 
This will next be reviewed at the PCC meeting on Monday 20th September.
 
Singing in Church
 
From this Sunday (August 1st) we will begin to sing again in church, but we will ask everyone (excepting children under 12 and those who are exempt) to keep their masks on to do so.
 
94% of respondents would like some kind of singing to resume.
Of this 94% 17% of people said that they would prefer this to be outside
Of this 94% a different 37% (ie not including the 17% above) of people would only feel comfortable singing inside with masks on
Of this 94% a different 20% of people would prefer to start by singing some of the songs only so that everyone can regain confidence in this
Of this 94%, the remaining 23% had no additional stipulations
 
Additional comments made:
 
27% of respondents said that it would be sensible to ask those who are keen to sing to sit at the front and those who are nervous about singing to sit nearer the back
 
11% of respondents commented that having some services where there is singing and some where there isn't would probably not be helpful
 
The approach taken by PCC to decide to sing all songs, but keep masks on was an attempt to 'go down the middle' of all the different suggestions.
 
This will next be reviewed at the PCC meeting on Monday 20th September.
 
 
Social Distancing in Church
 
Of the decisions made, this was the most complicated! We would ask you to bear with us in the process which we will go through on this.
 
For now, we will continue to keep 2 metre social distancing, however over the next few weeks we will experiment with how to make church look 'more like church used to':
 
From the 29th August,
•         We will re-establish rows (though there will be some rows which people do sit on and others which they don't)
•         We will also re-establish choice over where people sit (thank you for your patience up to now in sitting in allocated places, which - although trying to take into account hearing & other specific needs people have shared - has not always been to everyone's ideal!)
         
53% of respondents stated that they would prefer to keep to 2 metre social distancing for the current time
6% suggested reducing to 1.5 metres
22% suggested reducing to 1 metre
3% suggested sitting on alternate rows and sitting 1,2,3 (appropriate number) of seats apart
12% suggested social distancing isn't needed any more, but 3% suggested they would be happy to continue if others would like it
3% suggested having church half and half- 2m social distancing in one half and none in the other
3% were happy to go with the majority
 
A key point made, for us all to be aware of, is that little children do not understand 2 metres, 1 metre (etc). The parents who fed back on the questions are keen to support those who would like social distancing, but ask for understanding and kindness where their little ones unwittingly wander nearer to others than intended.
 
The approach taken by PCC here, was to try and honour the majority - over half of respondents still wish to keep 2 metre social distancing for now; but also to try and honour those who would like things to start to change by reshaping what the 2-metre social distancing looks like.
 
We have made the date of the 29th August to give time to experiment and re-prepare the churches. This will follow the joint service on Zoom on the 22nd August and so also gives extra time for those who will be involved in helping move the furniture for the revised church layout.
 
 
This will next be reviewed at the PCC meeting on Monday 20th September.
 
 
Some Further General Points:
 
Some further points were raised by a number of you and were discussed at PCC and in addition to the points above:
 
1) Zoom provision will continue for both services: Zoom is a new gift from the last 16 months which will stay with us as an additional tool for meetings and worship probably forever now, which can be applied as appropriate to different events. 16% of respondents to the questions do not feel safe enough (for medical or other reasons) or ready to return to church yet and will continue to join us from Zoom for the foreseeable future.
 
2) Our Monthly Joint Service will continue on Zoom for now, due to the higher numbers of people and also to enable those who are continuing on Zoom regularly for the moment to be able to see the rest of us and us them more easily
 
3) Booking for services will continue (at least until 20th September): one thing the government has requested is that a registering system continues for events, including worship, and this is a good way of doing this as well as planning for those who come. This is so that if there is a covid outbreak, we know who may be affected by it and can let you know swiftly.
 
4) Communion will continue in one kind only - although we are actually allowed to consider using the cup & sharing wine with one another, this is simply not safe or sensible at the current time.
 
5) Cleaning, good ventilation, hand sanitisation and other sensible measures will remain in place - everyone will continue to be asked to hand sanitise on arriving at the churches (to protect each other from the spread of germs) and everyone will continue to be asked to hand sanitise on the way out (to protect the local community from any germs which we still may have amongst us)
 
6) A more adaptable approach will be needed for Messy Church and Community Alive, the services where we have most children at each church: Although social distancing measures will still be in place for the adults, children need to interact and be able to be free (as far as their parents are happy with) to engage with one another - as they do at school. It is important that they can really enjoy the craft activities, games, role play activities and other items planned for them. Safety measures will still be in place for these services, but they will need their own risk assessments and different planning.
 
7) Each group activity will need its own risk assessment: although safety plans for group activities will be expected to be in line with the decisions for worship, individual risk assessments will be needed for each of these as we begin to open out again from September (consultations are currently taking place with team leaders on plans for the autumn)
 
8) Refreshments: Although we would all love to share refreshments with one another after services, as it is a key part of church in usual times, we have decided not to restart refreshments at the current time. As with each of the decisions made, this will be reviewed at the next PCC meeting on the 20th September.
 
This decision about refreshments does not apply to the group & outreach activities in the week (where numbers are generally smaller), and decisions on how to approach this in each different circumstance will be made by the team leaders and myself, jointly.
 
These points will next be reviewed at the PCC meeting on Monday 20th September.
 
I hope it is helpful to have read our thinking and you now feel confident about what to expect on Sunday at church and why.
 
Thank you again to all who took time to answer the questions either in email or discussion. It has been greatly appreciated.
 
Love and prayers,
Alex

Rev Alex Stevens
Vicar
Parish of Nork with Burgh Heath